I would hate to be a pilot and suddenly have s passenger struggling with me for control. The result is likely going to be fatal.
My father often said “every man is the architect of his own fortune”. Indeed, one’s present state is the result of past choices, regardless of influence by others or circumstances!
A BETTER FUTURE REQUIRES BETTER CHOICES….
Control of one’s affairs is taking ownership of responses to what life brings or offers, that is being “response-able”, otherwise known as responsibility. Life is in seasons, sometimes there are storms. Staying in control and not allowing fear, panic or anxiety to take over empowers one to be able to respond appropriately and win in life’s battles. No storm lasts forever.
This too shall come to pass!!!