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Is It “Kindness” or Blindness?

It was “too late” before the young girl realized she had been deceived. Her savings spent with not a penny left, by the young man full of empty promises. She had had no reason to doubt at first but warning signs flashed, which she ignored.

Embracing kindness and excitement at kind acts, is deemed a normal response. There are times however, when gestures of kindness are turned down for various reasons. Beware of hidden agenda!

I love the Nigerian phrase “shine your eye!” Kindness has been known to be shown by people with evil motives. Well presented persons coming to the rescue of people in vulnerable situations then kidnapping them for a ransom. Grooming is generating increasing concerns and children being exploited by being given goodies or showing them acts of kindness, only to be sexually exploited, radicalised or recruited into drug dealing schemes.

Vulnerable / Traumatized recipients: Acts of kindness may unfortunately be turned down if wrongly perceived to be deceitful. This has been known to happen where there’s emotional injury and perception of good is altered. Like a visual impairment, kindness is erroneously seen as wickedness, due to triggers of a traumatic event, still unresolved. In the same token, past trauma should not prevent one from missing out on true kindness.

Beware!!!

Attempts to control is not an uncommon reason for kindness being shown. This is usually by people pre-occupied with their own agenda and theirs alone. The detriment to others to them is irrelevant, the only focus is that which they seek to obtain: control. Innocent victims may therefore be less discerning when the true reason for the kindness is not apparent.

It is important to appreciate kindness, but more important not to be simple minded, noting ill intentions may be well packaged to cover up evil!

Is this act of kindness real or a means for a deal?

By Wonuola

It looked like it would be the perfect dream, starting life on acres of green pasture, evening walks on the farm inhaling fresh clean air! The scenes started to change like a movie being fast forwarded and precious moments seemed uncaptured till gone, not to return. I started learning to cherish life, the greatest gift above all things! I needed more, so I sought the source and got to know it came from Love and with it was always freedom! The rapidly changing scenes, with years speeding by, have been stormy and sometimes still, bright and grey, with highs and low! I have found meaningful living is not determined by circumstances but rather by what goes on within. The juice in the heart powers the body, its activities and interactions. Love gives life and powers living, with freedom expressing life. I remain passionate about a journey with life, love and liberty and hopefully encouraging others to do the same, living purposefully and leading in liberty. #LoveLifeLiberty
#LivingLeadingLiberty

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